How To Find The Perfect Birthday Gift
By Claire Calkin, Fri Dec 9th

Most of us frequently - if not all the time - are short of goodbirthday gift ideas. Regardless of who the intended recipientis, whether it is a brother, sister, mum, dad, grandparent orin-law, often we all end up frantically searching throughshopping malls for the elusive perfect gift. All toooften unfortunately, all these stores seem to stock onlyproducts that fall into one of three categories - they areeither unsuitable, overpriced or impractical.

So when you are looking for gift ideas it can help tobear in mind the following points. Firstly, does the recipientdeserve the efforts you are going to find them a gift? If theyare a passing acquaintance or you find them disagreeable, thenperhaps a gift is not necessary. If the person does deserve agift, you should determine to what extent you want to go to forthem. Are they worthy of you trudging through a crowded shoppingmall for? Quite often, the quest for good gift ideascan take longer than initially envisioned, so it is importantthat you only extent this for gifts for the people mostimportant to you.

DETERMINING SUITABLE GIFT IDEAS Often, before settingout on a shopping expedition to the mall, or online, it is goodto have a think about your intended recipient. What are theirinterests? Have they been dropping any subtle hints aboutsomething they may particularly want or need? In some cases, youare geographically distant from the recipient, so it may be hardto determine quite what they may be looking for in a gift.However generally you will have at least a rudimentary knowledgeof the person interests and what they like. You should alsodetermine prior what your budget is for the gift, and stick tothis. While you are likely to see otherwise suitable giftsoutside of your budget, you should stick to your original budgetlest exceeding it should cause consternation.

When it comes to choosing from different gifts you should alwaysconsider whether the item in question is most suited to yourrecipient. Some of the questions to ask of the prospective giftinclude, Is it in some way useful? Could it bring the recipientenjoyment? And perhaps most importantly, is it something I wouldlike to receive myself? If the

gift meets these criteria andfits within the budget, then chances are it is entirely suitable.

VOUCHERS / MONEY VERSUS GIFTS Many people tend to give vouchersor money rather than a physical gift. The reasoning behind thisis that it allows the recipient to spend the money as they seefit on a gift that they will surely like. The advantages for thegift giver is that it is a somewhat faster process than trudgingthrough a mall trying to locate a suitable physical gift, andthey can console themselves with the thought that they havegiven something of true value to the recipient. In many caseshowever, the reverse of these objectives is achieved. Often, therecipient may - while grateful for a gift in the first place -may consider voucher or money as the easy way out, in that theperson who gave them the item did not think it worth the time oreffort to locate a physical gift. The reality is, once received,money and vouchers are rather easily dispensed with, and for therecipient it is difficult to relate the fruits of the money orvouchers to the person

This said, certainly there are places for the gifting or moneyor vouchers - specifically to those located abroad or who areotherwise geographically distant.

BUY IN ADVANCE The reasons to buy presents in advance greatlyout weight the reasons not to. When you begin preparing forbirthdays and Christmas at the start of the year you can buypresents that are less expensive, more thought out, lessstressful experiences and more time to relax. If you leavepresent shopping until a few days before, you will have to paythe price the retailer asks for a particular item instead ofbuying it when it was on sale a few months earlier. Especiallywith Christmas, this season can be stressful and it takes timeand money to buy all the presents required in only a few days.Waiting in long queues is no fun either. It is ideal to buypresents ahead as you can spend more time on this present, lessmoney and get them something they will really appreciate. It isgreat to shop around over the course of year to find gifts tosuit everyone in your family. You can buy them on sale thenstore them safely away in the closet until it is time to bringthem out.

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About the author:Claire Calkin operates several websites featuring giftsand presents for family members.